2011 has been quite year!

NYE 2010 Picture

2011 has treated us like we were made of light twigs and it was a strong tornado. We have experienced a birth, job loses, parents with surgery and sickness, grandparents that we were not sure would make it, starting new ventures, and much more. It now seems to be adding yet another thing (a good thing) that could mean a move to a new city. It is sometimes amazing that we have made it through this year without total breakdowns and still feel like a supportive and connected family. Well I am happy to report there have been no breakdowns and we are as tight as ever! I was thinking today why this is. I realized there are a couple things we did that have made the difference:

1) Save money, 6 months of your yearly expenses for a just in case moment and try to get rid of all your debt

2) Enjoy time with your kids, even if that time was not planned, enjoy it! We had a great July in which we were both home almost every day.

3) Relaxation is key. I get a monthly massage and my husband gets them once and awhile too. I also think yoga makes a huge difference. I try to go once a week at least. A calm demeanor helps when you are dealing with stressful situations.

4) Remember to tell everyone in the family all the time how much you love them!

5) Laugh a lot, even at the bad news.

6) Lean on friends, they are there for you in the stressful times. Use them and be there for them when they need you.

I have noticed we are not the only ones that seem to have an exceptional crazy 2011. How is it treating you? What have you done to get through it?